“With internet porn, a guy can see more hot babes in 10 minutes than his ancestors could see in several lifetimes.” ~ Gary Wilson

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Our generation unlike the ones before us: We already have a crazy mountain of ‘social media addiction ‘ that we are to manage, climb and conquer.

What about the not-so-new, not un-known elephant in the room — Porn!

What about, once a thriving relationship now turned tasteless; Malnourished on togetherness, care, and intimacy?

What about, the ones seemingly prospective bright ‘future’ but convoluted by compulsive, manipulated, uncontrollable, enslaved ‘present’?

What about porn and our journey with it?

I can’t say it any other way:

Porn — is destroying us.

Sure, it’s evident that the world is darn confused and divided on Pornography. There’s no doubt about that.

NoFap Movement. 17 Benefits Of Masturbation?

Dilemma & Circus!

One side says that it’s cool and natural and harmless and healthy (if done ‘enough’, I mean really WTFridge!). Contrarily, the other side has its reservations, especially because of its chronic addictive nature fueled by its limitless and unprecedented ease of access to just about anyone who has figured out the www.

Porn?

Porn!

No Porn?

No Porn!

More grave complications.

Reasonably, it’s a choice. Whence, take it with a grain of salt and — do wisely pick your side.

Because, for those on the ‘yea’ spectrum (meaning, ‘yes’ for porn), rest assured — it comes with a price. Likewise, for those on the ‘nay’ side of the matter (meaning, ‘no’ for porn), have patience — it will pay off in the long run.

That’s a fact!

To add more: Understand that never like anytime before — porn has gotten more and more advance and powerful year after year and at the same time making us more and more powerless. Or precisely, the slaves per se! Hungry for the ever-draining dopamine and serotonin pump.

Understand that porn is probably the worst companion to your boon of boredom. And, that this instantaneously gratifying masturbation, fapping, jerking-off, or whatever you like to call it — is making you more lonely, intrinsically lustful, and in short an expensive waste!

Understand that — Intentionality. Real & profound relationships. Deliberate thinking. Perpetual learning. Growing. Bearing responsibility. Harnessing boredom — these … these are few key life’s muscles we all ought to build up and must work upon to merely throwing ourselves into mindless, pathological, wishful, lustful, and wasteful porn-infested life.

For a clear perspective on Porn, I present to you a few priceless gems (by some of the people I look up to) — which otherwise would’ve been easily ignored on the internet :

Joe Rogan | Modern Struggle is Fighting Media Addiction w/Naval Ravikat
Jordan Peterson Why You Should NoFap
Joe Rogan on NoFap

Namaste.

One boy’s journey through words and mixtapes.